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3 Things That Can Lead To Divorce

February 27, 2017

The divorce rate has improved some over the last few years, but I think it's more in part because not as many people are taking the big leap and getting married. If you are married or are planning to get married there are some things that you can do to increase your chances of getting divorced.

Any guesses what some of these things may be?

1. Trying to change someone: Let me be the first person to tell you that you cannot change someone. If you married someone who does not want to have children, getting married most likely won't make them suddenly want to become a parent. If you are going to marry the person, you need to accept them for who they are, the good and the bad.

2. Lack of Sex: If you used to get down and dirty all the time before marriage and even in the beginning of your marriage and that changes to not at all or hardly ever, well that could be grounds for divorce. There is nothing worse than being in a sexless marriage. It makes you feel unattractive and worthless.

3. Losing your individual identities: Oh there's something so nice about becoming a we or an us, but you can't you cannot lose you I or me. If you have certain hobbies that you do with friends you need to keep them. If you only spend time with your spouse, you will lose yourself and that won't end well. 

There are a few more items on the list that could cause divorce according to some experts. You can find them here!