4 Signs You've Found the One

June 10, 2019

Love can be blind, but it can also cause us to wear rose-colored glasses that make us miss out on some pretty obvious signs that a person is not good for us in the long run. If you've been single and out trying to meet people out and about or on one of the many dating APPs you know it's a real struggle. 

What are some of the real signs you've met someone you should pursue a relationship with and really invest time in?

We all have our lists of musts, but according to relationship experts, these are some of the most important signs this is a person who could be the one.

1. Your friends are their fan: Our friends can really be a good way to tell if someone is for us. They know us well enough to know what we ideally want from a partner and can look at the situation and maybe see things we don't see about someone. If you haven't given the person you're dating the friend's test yet, you should. And if the person you are involved with is apprehensive about meeting your friends, this could be a huge red flag. 

2. They're the first person you call with good or bad news: No matter what the news, good or bad, this person is there for you no matter what the circumstance. We don't want fairweather friends and we definitely do not want a fairweather partner either.

3. You can be yourself around them: In the early stages of dating, you may not feel comfortable letting yourself completely be the authentic you. We do this because we don't want to lay all of our cards out of the table just yet and we'd rather play them close to our chest until we know it's safe. You know that no matter what you do you will not be judged for being yourself.

4. You want to scream their name from the top of the tallest building: You are proud to call them your significant other and want the World to know. You aren't keeping your relationship a secret from family or friends or even coworkers. Also, you want them to feel the same way about you. If they are keeping you a secret or you haven't met their friends, you may want to be a bit weary.

You can see some more of the signs in the article I found below.